Do I Have to Define My Sexuality?
What I’ve always thought was openness might just be a defense mechanism, or a cop-out.
I think I was 13 when I told my mom, half-jokingly as a way to test the waters, that I might someday end up being with women. She didn’t love it.
“It’s just that I’m worried you’re going to have a much harder life than you need to,” she…