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Uncoupled: Relatable and Fun, but What About the Women?
NPH’s new Netflix show is important for LGBTIQ representation, but I feel weird about it. Maybe that’s just me.
I‘m never sure what to think about Neil Patrick Harris. He’s charming and talented, but there’s always a certain unease.
NPH has done some messed-up things, like the Amy Winehouse cake/charcuterie board he made for a past Halloween celebration, only months after the singer’s death.
Turning the death of a notoriously troubled woman with severe addictions who died much too young into a gnarly joke was normal in the 2011 world, but now it just screams misogyny. And he never apologized.
His character as Barney in How I Met Your Mother is also a notorious woman hater. It’s obviously not his fault, he’s just the actor portraying the ultimate insecure, elitist jerk. But it sticks in your mind.
On the other hand, he’s a good actor and — usually — seems like a nice person. But there’s something in his brand of snark that I just can’t feel comfortable with. So, watching Netflix’s new show Uncoupled, I wasn’t sure if I could tolerate it.
There’s good and bad. Good for LGBTIQ+ representation, not so good for the women. But it might just be me.
